This is the place where we are have documented the road we have walked in order to adopt our four children from Brazil and the road we are now on as a family. We are keenly aware that adopting is not just a process we've chosen to go through, but part of God's plan for us and for our children. May He be glorified through the process and through our family!
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Adrenaline vs. Real Life
All of this is my clever way of confessing that I've not been a very tender mommy during the last couple weeks. Everyone tells me this is a normal part of life and motherhood, but I think I can do better. Fact is, it's not easy being a mother. And it's not easy keeping 4 very individual individuals clean, happy and fed while at the same time trying to teach them compassion, empathy, respect, obedience, togetherness, patience and manners.
Loving them is easy. Being nice to them sometimes isn't. But they deserve the best, so we keep trying.
On the drive home from a weekend getaway, we pledged to keep our patience and respect levels high and our grumpy levels low. We asked the children to work extra hard on following our four family rules: Respect, Obey, Ask Permission and Stick Together. I think it was a talk that Supernanny would have had with us if she'd happened by our corner of CT.
So far, so good. Sunday afternoon we took a family hike through the beautiful spring air and got some ice cream on the way home. I managed to keep my cool almost all day today (except when Brayan was sticking his face in the dog's bowl while Oscar was trying to eat his dinner) and I feel measurably less haggered now that the only sounds in the house are the dishwasher, washing machine and dryer all humming away while little ones sleep soundly in their little beds.
Just need a little more grace to keep it going.